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38: Unlock The Secrets to Your Personality, Emotions, and Relationships through Enneagrams

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You might have heard of the Myers-Briggs personality test, but have you heard of Enneagrams? If you haven’t, or if you’ve heard the term being thrown around, but you just don’t know what it is, be prepared for your latest obsession. Today, Zuri is diving deep into the world of Enneagrams, personality types, wings, and transitions with Enneagram expert, Christa Hardin.

Unlike other regular personality tests, your Enneagram offers an intimate, deeper look into who you are, what strengths and weaknesses you have, and how you operate in this world. Christa is breaking the 9 different Enneagrams, their wings, and their transitions down for you so you can self-identify, get validation on your preferences, and even use this information to strengthen your relationships.

Zuri and Christa dive into the world of Enneagrams, what they mean, and how you can use them to form stronger bonds, work more efficiently, and find confidence in why you are the way you are. If you aren’t already knee-deep into the world of Enneagrams, buckle up because you’re about to be.

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Episode Resources: True Self Enneagram | Your Enneagram Glow | Enneagram Podcast | Enneagram + Marriage | Truity Enneagram Test | Enneagram Institute RHETI Test

Info About Christa: Christa Hardin, MA, is rooted in almost two decades years of experience counseling and coaching couples using top marriage research. On top of her expert marriage advice, Christa hosts the weekly Enneagram & Marriage Podcast and has developed forty-five Enneagram Glow Guides for each and every couple pairing. Christa uses the Enneagram and other great marriage tools to add another layer of understanding and to give us deeper insight into how we connect with one another and glow brightly together in the world!

A Closer Look at the Episode:

  • [5:18] How Christa discovered the Enneagram and how she got into this line of work

  • [6:56] What wellness means according to Christa

  • [7:26] A crash course on what the Enneagram is

  • [9:50] Breaking down an enneagram chart and its 9 personality types

  • [11:08] An overview of the 9 types of Enneagrams (which do you relate most to?)

  • [19:14] What’s an enneagram wing and why do some people have it?

  • [21:18] Fluidity and transitioning between enneagram types

  • [25:57] Best enneagram accounts to follow

  • [24:51] How being aware of your enneagram can improve your relationships

  • [28:04] Exploring the healthy to unhealthy spectrum of an enneagram

  • [31:04] Where to go to find out your enneagram

  • [32:28] About Christa’s Enneagram Glow Process

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Zuri Hall is an Emmy award-winning TV host (Access Hollywood, American Ninja Warrior) and is the executive producer & host of this millennial-focused podcast that will empower women to avoid “best life burnout” through candid conversation, expert panel discussions, and real-life, human interest stories from everyday women.

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